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There are a lot of gals out there who have the kinds of bodies that drive men absolutely crazy. I don't know how some girls manage to have the kind of big, fit booty that they have, but I'm sure glad that they do. It makes me proud to walk down the street with a girlfriend that every guy is staring at and wishing that he was with her. Instead, they'll have to check out some of the gorgeous girls on the fitness dating sites that are so popular these days. I've had great success meeting some absolutely beautiful women with positively perfect posteriors.
Looking For A Sexy, Fit Girl
I know that personality is supposed count for a lot and that it's generally considered shallow to be overly obsessed about the way people look. Be that as it may, it's hard to deny that most guys are going to be more attracted to a sexy, fit girl. It's not just a guy thing either, it's pretty obvious that fit guy will get more attention than a guy who doesn't take care of himself. So if, for whatever reason, you're the kind of person that thinks people's bodies are important then a fitness dating site might be the best place for you to look for a partner.
t is like a “déjà vu” – the same pink hearts all over the windows of the shops, the same tacky cards and the same feeling of “I’m dreading it!” Well… let me tell you – it is a bit over the top and in my opinion it’s not the right way to just manifest your feelings only once a year! That’s what Valentine’s Day has become in the last decades and it is actually yet another sad example of our consumerism. I for one, refuse to participate and I know this feeling – when you are single it’s really hard to bear the whole “industry” efforts of trying to make you feel guilty and “invisible” only because you don’t have a “valentine” and you don’t buy her/him a pink polyester heart-shaped pillow! Sound familiar?
It’s not what love is all about – for me it is in the small details and you can feel it every single day when you are with the right person. It may be not a bunch of 24 red roses from Tesco, just one single one after a nice walk in the park or even just a smile early in the morning is enough to know that you are loved! While I’m dreading the Valentine’s Day with all the tackiness,
naturally I strongly believe you do need to look for that special one! This is not just to have somebody for the next Valentine in order to not feel discriminated for being single - but for life!
Happy Dating!
How do you know when he or she may be the one for you?
We asked our Members for their suggestions and have listed just a few they came up with below:
You can't stop thinking about each other when you are apart
He asks you what you would like, then does it
She can make you laugh and lift your spirits
He is caring and considerate, asks for and listens to your opinions and feelings
You communicate easily and can talk about a variety of things never running out of things to say You work together to solve problems
You accept each other's differences and can agree to disagree without resentment
She is an independent thinker and has her own thoughts and opinions, not just agreeing with yours
He is open and comfortable talking about himself
You respect, admire and appreciate each other
A Picture is worth a Thousand Words!
We’ve all heard the advertising phrase about a ‘picture being worth a thousand words’, well nowhere is it more important than when seeking a partner! Regardless of whether you choose British Sex Contacts to assist in your search or you go it alone with the lottery of internet dating, the importance of your photo cannot be ignored! Last years holiday snaps or one from the new years party at the start of the new millennium just won’t do it!
Unfortunately but understandably, 86% of our Members when surveyed recently, stated that the photo of the proposed match played a critical part in the decision whether to meet. It’s human nature to place great emphasis on first impressions but following the sincere advice of our Consultants, we have numerous examples of successful relationships that developed following meetings initially having been refused based on appearances – so you don’t need to be a supermodel to be successful!
Whilst these objective recommendations are a huge benefit from using the TopMatch service, for both parties, you can do yourself a real favour by at least making sure the photo you use is the best possible in terms of lighting, pose and your own preparation as well as being up to date, to avoid any surprises. Our experienced Consultants will take a good quality photo at your initial Consultation but if you really want to greatly improve the odds, we’d recommend you invest a small amount of time and money in using a professional photo studio. They are the experts and they’ll be able to ensure you make the best possible first impression and avoid the risk of missing out on finding Mr or Mrs Right just because of your photo!
Even though I'm open to the possibility of being with someone outside of my generation, my experience has taught me that such a situation brings with it issues you should keep in mind. The most apparent is insecurity. It's not uncommon for shy older women or men to be a bit nervous about your energetic spirit. They can easily forget what they have to offer when faced with the outer beauty they themselves fear losing, or have lost already. I'm not just talking about senior dating either.
We thought it may be helpful to list a short selection of essential dating tips that you should follow if you hope to make a great first impression and have a chance of getting a second date!
After arranging your date, don’t keep calling or texting before you meet – save something to talk about and avoid appearing desperate!
Gents make sure you are always early – never keep a lady waiting!
Pay attention to presentation – clean shoes, nails, hair, teeth, clothes etc
Don’t make an instant judgement – let people warm up and relax and you may see them in a different light!
Sincerely compliment your date on something – her hair, his tie, anything – except physical attributes, you’re still comparative strangers, so don’t get too personal at this stage!
Listen at least as much as you speak – be genuinely interested in what your date has to say – a very attractive characteristic.
Be honest – if not, it could spoil things later if you begin a relationship. Reveal your past at a slow rate though; you may reveal some fatal flaws. The process is like peeling the layers off an onion; move too fast and you’ll create tears. Don’t be downbeat about yourself or too arrogant.
Be philosophical and forward-looking – remember, the past doesn’t always equal the future.
Don’t talk about yourself non-stop and don’t boast – a most unattractive characteristic and almost certain to spoil the date.
Don’t be bitter about ex-partners – bitterness is definitely unattractive. Bitter people are the types who make huge, inaccurate and plainly illogical generalisations about how terrible men/women are – it’s sad, it’s boring and it’s wrong, don’t do it!
Things to try to avoid talking about but which usually crop up in conversations – politics, religion and sex. Don’t make sweeping statements or insulting remarks. Try to make your date laugh – but keep the jokes witty – and clean!
Don’t drink too much. If you don’t drink alcohol generally, tonight is not the time to start. Stick to your usual drink. If either of you is driving, don’t drive, be responsible.
Already have the second date in mind when you are on the first. This may appear presumptuous but you don’t want to be caught off guard if the first date overruns and you don’t have a chance to make a second. Your second date should usually be dinner in a nice restaurant for lunch or dinner.
What is the No1 mistake men make with online dating?
Okay there are few things that could be considered the ‘kiss of death’ when it comes to online dating but from talking to women that date online regularly this has come out as the number 1.
She logs into her account, checks her inbox and opens this:
Hi Silverlady, loved your profile and you look good too. Email me iamaplonker@stupidmail.com or phone me on 123456. Desperate Dan
This says the following…. in huge neon signs:
1. You didn’t even read her profile because you have not mentioned one thing about her you like or want to know more about.
2. “and you look good too” is the equivalent of undressing someone with your eyes, in an unpleasant letcherous way - how far does that usually get you?
3. You don’t want to get to know her - the email and phone number are the equivalent of trying to get to 3rd base before you have asked her name.
4. You are so desperate to have physical contact with just about anyone that you can’t even be bothered with the pleasantries.
Well if you think those are good signals to send out then the very best of luck to you, because you are going to need it. Women DO NOT respond well to such approaches.
Some men think that they can get away with:
Hi Silverlady, liked your profile. You play water polo, you must be very fit. Check out my profile and if you like it I would love to hear from you again. Dan
{hey, not a bad start, well done - she just might reply}
Hi Dan, thanks for your email. Yes I play in my local team and it keeps me quite fit. Do you play a sport? Silverlady
{then you go and do it}
Hi Silverlady. Yes I play footy. Your photo is really nice. Why don’t we talk offline call me on ……… Desperate Dan
Just because you waited until the second email does not make it okay.
Unless you have joined a website called ‘women desperate for sex with you tonight’ then this approach is the absolute kiss of death. Have a little self respect and respect for the women you are contacting. Most women want to talk, to get to know you and they want you to get to know them (mentally not physically).
