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2009-05-27T08:53:00.002Z

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House Debauchery Wanting Michael, She Settles for 3 Others

2009-04-22T14:05:00.005Z

Hot swinger story from a hot no strings date a friend of mine had.

Either I have prescient powers of prediction, or I know
women. By the time Brute exploded in Melaine and pulled
out, Michael had drifted off to mount Lola, and a tearful
Melaine started to flee to her room, but because of her drunkenness
had first asked me what floor it was on. I conducted the near
naked beauty into my bedroom and draped a sheet over her
shoulders. I expected that she would be a regular cry baby
after she fell from grace, and I'd have to comfort her
while she sobbed, "I dont know whats happing to me."

I held her had and cajoled, "It's aaaaahhll right,
honey! It's aaawwll right. No woman can withstand
that kind of seduction." Then, after making sure
my hands had further aroused her, added understandingly,
"You feel guilty because you need to do it some more."

"NOOOOOO!" she wailed. "If I do ii shum
more, evereebodee will think I'm a WHORE! Were'sh
Miiichael. I wann Michael!" Michael was the one she
had wanted to fuck before Brute impaled her from behind.
While slamming into her wide, rounded rear doggie style,
Brute had roared, "YOU PIG! YOU FUCKIN PIG!"

That had driven the Marilyn Monroesque Melaine into an
orgasm where she had screamed, "I'M A PIG! I'M
A PIG! FUUUUUUUUCK MEEEEEEE! MAGE ME A PIG! MAGE ME A PIG!"
Now, she was remorseful and extremely horny at the same
time. I didnt mean to say I wash a pig. I jush got carried
away. Maichael thinksh Im a pig, boo, hooo, an thash why
he wont fuck me.

"No, honey; its not that. Why don't you come
back out to the living room. You can just go back out an watch."

"Wash! Wash happinin oud there?"

"Listen, honey. Listen an learn." Now the sounds
filtered in and it was evident that a full scale orgy was
taking place in the living room. Interspersed with female
fuck me's, Brute's voice was roaring out over
and over again, "WHORE! WHORE! WHORE!"

Then, Lola's voice bellowed, "GOD DAMMIT, IM
ALMOSH THERE! SOMEBODEE ELSHE FUCK ME!"

"Ish an ooorgeee!" Melaine slurred.

"I think you should have another drink." I said
in my most solicitous voice."

"Would Michael bring id?"

"He sounds busy. Why don't I get one of the other
boys to bring it?"

"Woulsh yeeuw stay here while he comesh in?"

"Of course, Honey. Of course. Whatdaya want?"

"Oohh I shoulnd dring anee more! I'm drunk."

"Then does it matter if you're a little drunker?"

"Nooo, I guesh nod. mate ya godda wash me! I feel awfully
like doing it some mooore."

"Ooohh, I'll watch you all right, " I leered.
"Whatta ya drinkin?"

"Vodka martinish."

"Vodka martinis. Now that sounds perfect. I'll
be right back!"

Inside of two minutes, I led three naked, stiff cocked studs
in the room, all holding a vodka martini. The minute she
spied the brutes the topless and panty-less beauty wailed,
"OOHH NOOOOO!" and rolled over on her face and
began to sob piteously making her ass globes all the more
irresistible. As they put the cocktails down, I knelt by
her and comforted her. "It's OK, honey. It's
OK." Big Ben laid a rough hand on her lovely and ponderous
ass cheek.

"Issh nod OK! Im married!"

"They just wanted to make sure you're OK. They're
not going to do anything unless you ask. Right guys?"

"Thass whad the man said!" Growled a voice laden
with booze.

"Im married. I'm nod thad kinda girl!"

"No, of course you're not a girl, Melaine. You're
a woman! a REEAL woman! Give her a drink, someone, "
I suggested as I lifted her in a sitting position with her
perfect breast cones overhanging her skirt. Pull the edge
of your skirt up, Melaine so they can see youre a woman.

She smiled drunkenly through her tears and further exposed
her glistening wet swatch. See? Shes all woman and needs
a man, dont you Melaine?

"SHE SURE IS A WOMAN!" another masculine voice
enthused while I rubbed her back. As I did, I grabbed the
hand that had held Melaine's vodka cocktail glass
out to me and placed it on her ass.

"Who'sh han is that? Ish thad Michael'sh?"

"It's OK, sweetheart. He's just gonna make
you feel better."

She lifted he beautiful, blonde face up and looked at him.
"Yeeu're nod Michael. I need Michael."

"Won't I do?" Rob growled.

I interrupted, "Here darlin. Rob here brought you
this drink. Drink it, an while Rob helps you with needing
a man, we'll get Michel for you."

I held it up to her lips as with down hanging breasts, she
sipped the elixir that had propelled her into this erotic
condition.

Who do you want? Your husband?

No, Michael!

Are you gonna cheat on your husband?

I need Michael.

Meanwhile Rob's massage of her buttocks moved down
inside her ass cheeks. "Uuuuhhhh!" she gasped

"Is that good, baby?"

"YAAAH!" she gasped from the sting of the booze
she had quaffed.

Robs gonna fuck you now. Do you want Rob?

Just then, Rob's fingertips moved into between Melaine's
flaps and glistened from the love load that had already
been shot up inside her.

"Ish thad yeeuw, Michael?"

"No its Rob Do ya still want Michael?"

"Who's doing that to me?"

"It's Rob, honey!"

"I want Rob! Then, I want Michael.

Who do you want, honey?

I wann Rob!"

"Here! Rob, enter her!" To Melaine, I added,
"I'm gonna hold your hand while he enters you.
Just so you'll know that cause you're so hot to trot,
cheating on your husbands the right thing to do.

As I was saying that, Rob had stretched out on my bed behind
her and turning her substantial ass on her side, he fed his
thick cock in the seeping cleft of her cunt flaps. "Aacchhh!"

What a womanly sound "Aacchhh!" is when that
cock slides up inside her. His shaft disappeared, then
emerged glistening and now the stroking began. "Ooohhh
yes! Oooohhh yes!" she gasped as her breasts began
the dance of the cheating wife. Aaaahh! Aaahhgghh! Uuuhhhh!

Now, I held her breasts, and beckoning with my head to another
of the two naked and erect studs to kneel, I asked her, "Is
it good, honey? It's good, isn't it baby? You're
all woman! You should be doing this all the time. Do ya still
want Michael?"

"MICHAEL!" she wailed. "I WANN MICHAEL!
FUCK ME MICHAEL! FUCK ME!"

"HERE!" I shouted over the screaming. "SUCK
THIS MUTHERFUCKER'S COCK, PIG!"

Dogging plus Loaf.co.uk = A Fucking good time !

2008-12-29T11:29:00.003Z

The last time I posted about going dogging was ages and ages ago and it got me thinking. Ok, it got me wet too and in the mood for my next dogging session, so it thought fuck it why not have some fun over the xmas period ?

So the last time i went out doggin there was lots of guys hanging around eager for some action
but its not always like that when i am out.

For instance I got chatting to a guy whilst out at a bar the other night who admitted to being quite an avid fan of the doggin and swinging scene in general.
Well I think I might have had a few drinks after that with some girlie friends as I cant seem to remember much after that but I did manage to give him my loaf name (cyber if you wanna know)

So I think it was the next morning or maybe afternoon that I got a loaf message through from him tellin me he had signed up and now what !

Now what indeed ? So after a quite a bit of flirting back and forth via the phone we were going to send each other our actual phone numbers, but we decided it would be much more fun and mysterious if we just met up instead.

So next thing I know he's texted me the name of his local park and its post code and I am in the car quick as a flash down there lol !
So I park up and see only one other car in the parks car park a lovely looking big merc now I don't get impressed easily by cars and other such flash crap,but I do love a big Mercedes Benz all that room to get down and dirty !
Truth be told however I seemed to spend alot of time on the front seat on top of my handsome stranger that I had only just met and only kn

Actually this little story shows you something very important about dogging. It doesn't have to be with lots of guys. The point about dogging is the anonymity and the public place thing. I have sucked some cocks in public places, just like that, out of the blue and I definitely consider it part of my dogging adventures and a major reason for doing it !

I fucked my sons best friends !

2008-08-22T09:36:00.010Z

I work long hours during the day and often come home to an empty house with lots of time to unwined before my husband and son come home.

After another long day at work, I arrived home exhausted. The first thing I did was open a bottle of wine and poor myself a glass. Two to three glasses later I was feeling pretty good . Then the doorbell rang. It was one of my oldest son’s best friends looking for him to go out for the evening. Dan was a keen sportsman on the football team and had a very athletic and strong body. I was surprised to find myself getting wet just looking at him. But there I was, getting turned on by my son’s best friend.

I told him that my son was not home yet but he could make himself comfortable if he wished. He obliged and I opened the door for him. He then sat on the couch, never taking his eyes from me, and turned on the TV. After some small talk, I went to the kitchen for some more wine. My panties were now getting wet from watching him take in my curvaceous body, my 36D breasts, and my long hair. His erection that he was trying to hide was growing, along with his confidence to sweet talk me.

Then, out of nowhere, I felt two strong hands feeling up my ass. Before I could think, my short skirt was up over my waist and there was one finger stroking my now hot, wet pussy, and another finger probing my anus. He pushed himself against me. My resistance was useless as my hunger for sex soon took over. I let him do what he wished, even though I knew my son and my husband would be home soon.

He began to play with my huge tits through my pink skimpy sleeveless t-shirt.

I reached down and messaged the bulge in his crotch through his tight fitting jeans. All of a sudden, I felt my panties fall to the floor. I knew what was coming next. In the next moment, his pants and his boxers were off so quick I didn’t even see it happen. Then, he finally let turn and face him. He kissed me fast and hard, darting his tongue into my hot mouth. By this time, I was showing no resistance at all and was in fact encouraging him to continue. I fell to my knees and took his huge shaft into my mouth and proceeded to suck his hardening cock, gagging on the first stroke. After he was good and hard, forced me to my feet. I bent over and he began to fuck me doggy-style. He was hardly gentle, pounding my pussy so hard that it hurt at first.

I must not have heard them come in, because I looked up to see two more of my son’s friends, Kim and Tanya, by the kitchen door, with a look of shock on their faces.

One a blonde and the other a brunette, they were both hot, with large breasts and gorgeous bodies. Tanya was beautiful oriental girl, and was obviously aroused by what was happening. I was about to cum and couldn’t stop fucking Dan’s huge cock despite the fact that I knew better.

Tanya, reached over and started squeezing Kim’s nipples. She squirmed at the touch. Soon they were locked in a passionate kiss and were quickly naked and on the floor in a sixty nine position. Then, of all things, my son Rick came in. With a huge grin on his face he took out his cock and sat on one of the kitchen chairs and began stroking himself. After five minutes of this, he knelt down beside Tanya, who was fucking Kim’s soaking pussy with her tongue. He forced his dick into Tanya’s little mouth and fucked her face.

I was so excited that I had another orgasm. Dan said he wanted to fuck my ass so I let him. It felt sooo good. My son had had enough and needed a fuck. He took his rod out of Tanya’s mouth, told Kim to get on all fours, and entered her hot love hole.

Kim was stilling licking and sucking Tanya’s swollen clit, and it was not long before all three came.

Then, my husband finally came home. At first he could not believe what he was seeing, but then he started to become intrigued and even aroused. He reached down and started masturbating his penis. Soon he too was naked and looking to get a good fuck.

My husband, Rex, took Tanya and forced her up against the fridge. He entered her and fucked her hard. After he came, it didn’t take him long to get hard again and started to fuck Kim from behind. Kim began to scream and yell that she needed to be fucked up the ass. Rex had no problem with this and gave her anus a good pounding. Kim was sucking my son’s cock while getting her ass fucked by his father. It was too much for me to watch and I came with several more orgasms while Dan shot his hot juice up my ass. My son and my husband came all over Kim’s face and tits, and Tanya hungrily licked it all up.

When we were done, I cooked dinner and we relaxed from all the activities. We then fucked each other all night.

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So wanna hear about my first sexy meet with a guy from britishsexcontacts.com

2008-04-16T15:36:00.005Z

I met this man online about a year ago on britishsexcontacts.com. At first it was abit of just flirtatious fun, we played on cam and did our dirty talk via the messaging system. Soon it became an every night meeting online that I couldn't wait for everyday. A few months later we talked about meeting and "sealing the deal." We agreed that he would come to my house where I would be waiting for him, this is my story.....

It was 2pm in the afternoon. I spent the day anxiously awaiting his arrival, I could not believe that this was happening, although, very thankful. I lit the last candle as I heard a knock on the door. My heart raced as I reached for the doorknob and as I opened the door, there he was with this sexy smile on his face. He stepped inside and wrapped his arms around me, he whispered in my ear "I want you."

His hot breath on my ear sent a sensation from my neck to my pussy making me so wet. He pulled his head up and looked deep into my eyes while reaching behind him and shutting the door. This is it, I thought. Using his body he began leading me backwards towards the couch where he sat me down. I couldn't help myself as I noticed his crotch in my face. I automatically reached up to undo his pants. He sorta giggled and ran his fingers through my hair. I looked up at him as I pulled his pants down to his ankles. I took his hard cock in my mouth and began sucking on it and rubbing my tongue on the top of his shaft. I started to rub his cock with my hand as I took his balls into my mouth, he moaned as bent his knees to get every inch in my face. As I went back to sucking on his dick, he reached down and pulled my shirt off revealing only my perky tits. He ran his fingers over my nipples and made them stand at attention. I felt my pussy getting wetter and wetter. He pulled his cock out of my mouth and got down on his knees.

Pushing me back against the couch, he pulled my pants off and spread my legs wide. He stuck his fingers deep inside of my hot wet pussy. My head went back and my body got stiff as I felt his tongue glide across my clit. He grabbed my ass and pulled me up towards him. His tongue went in my love tunnel and then back to my clit, sucking it and making me moan. He ate my pussy so good I came on his face. He licked and sucked, getting every drop. When my orgasm subsided he turned me over on my stomach and slowly put his dick into my tight ass. It hurt at first since I had never had anal sex before. But, he let me get comfortable with it and it began to feel okay. Slowly he moved inside of my ass and reaching around he played with my pussy. I couldn’t believe how good this man was making me feel. As he pumped my ass he leaned over and began kissing my neck down to my back. He held my hips tight as he fucked me harder watching his dick go in and out. I could hear his pelvis slapping my ass cheeks and that turned me on even more. I loved it and I told him that as he pulled out and came all over my ass. When he finished he turned me over and kissed me hard while rubbing my tits. "Let's go shower," he said as he led me to the bathroom.....

Well that's all i am gonna say for now but things got alot dirtier despite us being in the bathroom lol !

If your looking for some sexy fun then i really recommend taking a look at britishcontacts.com its free for women like me :) and has no monthly subscription for guys so there's no commitment all the guys I've spoken to on there seem pretty happy with it and said they would recommend it too.

So see you all at britishsexcontacts.com

P. S Any women or girls are welcome to chat to me aswell as i am a very open women.

Have you ever told a woman that you really liked her, and then for some strange reason she turned cold as ice

2008-04-07T16:12:00.009Z

Have you ever told a woman that you really liked her, and then for some strange reason she turned cold as ice – and stopped returning your calls? If so, you’ll want to read every word of this . You’ll find the secret to solving this problem FOR GOOD. I'd like to tell you a story...

It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.

Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.

At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.

But there was one problem.

As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.

Why?

Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.

Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage.

There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue.

But something was wrong with the picture.

She just wasn't acting like a woman that was "falling in love". She was acting like a friend.

The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his girlfriend.

Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him.

After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT, that she would feel the same way.

So he made a bold move.

He TOLD HER how he felt.

He confessed that he was in love, and that he would do anything to be with her.

She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said "Thank you... I really mean that... but I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're too important to me...".

This only confused the man more.

He didn't know how to take it...

Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something?

Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long-term relationship?

Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that she was trying to give him a hint?

Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?

Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?

He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... he had to be with her.

He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... so he took a big step, bought her a symbolic gift, and wrote her a long, long letter... again confessing his feelings.

And then the unthinkable happened.

She didn't reply.

He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her.

She made an excuse about being very busy, and said "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go"... and hung up...

...but he never got a call back.

Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.

THE END

OK, I'm back.Now, wasn't that a sweet story?

Heart warming, huh?

I know, I should keep my day job, and not take up writing romance novels...

Now, let's talk about that story.

That story is basically a MYTH.

And I'm not talking about FICTION here.

I'm talking about a story that rings true for a great majority of men. A story that is timeless.

A story that resonates at a deep level because you can IDENTIFY with it.

And why does this particular story resonate for most men?

Because we've all been there in one way or another... at one time or another... and many of us have been there OFTEN in our lives.

Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs... as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it reminds us of...

Stories and situations like this one really FASCINATE me.

They fascinate me because I see them as an opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles that they represent.

In this particular situation I think there is a solution.

And it lies in understanding a secret that women know but MEN DON'T.

And that secret comes down to the reality that if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him, and court her BACKFIRE.

In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE.

In other words, the very things that a man does to try to make a woman LIKE HIM make her NOT like him. They make her run.

All those great intentions and emotional dedication actual cause the man feeling them to do things that make her go away.

It sucks.

And I hope that by explaining the process of how this happens to you I'll help you avoid this painful situation in your own future...

THE "INSTANT EWWW"

I'm always fascinated by the idea that we humans don't always understand the message that we're communicating to others...

So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message that others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car that has wheels on it that cost more than the car itself... with his stereo blasting... and a muffler that somehow AMPLIFIES the raw sound of the 4-cylinder motor...?

Have you ever thought to yourself "I don't think that car is communicating the message to women that he thinks it is"...?

Yea, I have too.

Well here's the deal:

If you do something to "let a woman know how you feel"... but she isn't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to backfire.

It's going to trigger a feeling that I like to call the "Instant Ewww".

The Instant Ewww is just as powerful as the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION.

Once a woman feels it, YOU'RE DONE.

It's over.

It's like hammering a RAILROAD SPIKE into the coffin.

Once a woman feels the Instant Ewww, she will start behaving differently.

In short, she'll disappear.

So where did I get the concept of the "Instant Ewww"?

I got it from WOMEN.

I have actually heard SEVERAL women use the word "Ewww" when describing how they felt about a guy that was "confessing his love"... of course, these were guys that weren't loved in return.

So what causes the Instant Ewww?

And why would a woman feel it towards a man who was trying to be nice... a guy who was giving her a gift or telling her how he feels?

Because if you think about it from HER perspective, you'll realize that the moment a you do something to "confess", you have created a TURNING POINT in the relationship.

Up until that point, you were harmless.

I mean, women always know how men feel.

She already knew you wanted her.

She knew it from the beginning.

But now that you've started pursuing her and talking about how you feel, you've created a NEGATIVE TENSION that is VERY uncomfortable.

You've triggered an emotion that is repulsive to women. And it does repel them.

In summary...

You can't "make a woman like you" or "change how she feels about you" by doing nice things for her...

Doing "nice" things for a woman who isn't attracted to you HURTS you. It backfires. Worse, it creates the "Instant Ewww" feeling that makes it so she'll NEVER like you.

Men make this mistake over and over again in life because they're doing what MAKES SENSE to them. They're doing it because they don't have an understanding of ATTRACTION.

I mean, If you have a friend, and you like them, and you want to make them like you more... and you do some nice thing for them, they will probably like you more.

On the other hand...

If you have a woman that you "like" in a romantic way, and she doesn't "feel it" for you, and you do something nice for her because you want HER to like you more, it will BACKFIRE... and she will not only NOT like you more, she will most likely distance herself from you.

Guys think that they need to communicate when they like a woman... as if that's part of the necessary process of getting a girl.

In their minds, it goes like this:

Like her>Tell her you like her>She likes you

Well remember... if you follow this pattern yourself with women who aren't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to BACKFIRE.

If she's not into you, then it goes like THIS:

She thinks of you as a friend>You tell her you like her>She gets the "Instant Ewwws" and never wants to be around you again...

THE ANSWER

There are really TWO answers to this problem.

The first answer is what to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular girl, but you don't know if she likes you back.

DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HER.

Don't buy her a big gift and write a love letter...

Don't send her ten dozen roses to her work with a not that says "From your secret admirer".

Don't call her three times a day.

And DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for her.

If you want to know how she feels about you, KISS HER.

As a rule of thumb, don't get heavier than HER. Use SIGNALS from her to find out how she feels... and if you don't know how to read and create those signals, then LEARN.

Asking a woman if she's interested in your in a romantic way, or if you are "her type" will actually DESTROY the chances that she'll like you.

Really.

The SECOND answer is to not get into this particular situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid it entirely.

And how does one do that?

One does that by creating ATTRACTION from the beginning.

One does that by understanding the dynamics of how and why women have the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered.

One does that by knowing what you're doing FROM THE BEGINNING.

Your Reviews of dating sites emailed to me !

2008-04-02T10:49:00.002Z

Reviews of dating sites emailed to me !

First off Mel thanks for reviewing www.britishsexcontacts.com for us...

I have been a member of britishsexcontacts for a while now and I would recommend you sign up . You can't contact members without buying credit however you can look around and view profiles and search etc which is good plus you can buy as many or as little credits as you like .

I enjoy the chat rooms and find that there is always new people joining the site. I have met a few people which were really nice but they didn't work out, but that was no fault of British sex contacts i guess.

James: from: UK : Reviews adult friend finder

I have only just registered for adultFriendFinder and thought I would try the site out a little before I buy. Unfortunately there seems to be very little I can do more than look around unless I choose to pay. I am not sure if I should go ahead. Everything on the site seems to work well and there appears to be lots of potential profiles I would like to contact. I got the feeling while using it that a large number of the members were free members who can't reply to you even if you have paid your membership and made first contact. Why can't they allow members to reply to paid members without the additional cost like on many sites. Most sites offer free reply. Or I believe that there is a site that allows women to do this . sexist maybe, but I am well resigned to the fact that us poor men have to pay one way or another in the end.

Claire from: UK : Reviews : Chat2men

Met a lot of good friends on here and some nice guys. Unfortunately not met the man of my dreams yet but not giving up. Easy to use and good as free for us ladies. Get a few sleazy men who are just wanting what they can get and are also married!

This is a safe site for all women to be on i give it 100% hope you all agree. This site is really good you can get to meet some like minded genuine people .

Mike from UK Review: letscheat.com

A strange name for a dating site and an unusual site it is. Letscheat.com is specifically aimed at people looking outside their monogamous relationships to safely find a partner for an affair or fling.Although it does'nt just limit itself to cheating spouses anyone is welcome.Not that this notion is rare with dating online, its just that most dating sites don't admit to how many married members they have. letscheat.com has made quite a name for itself in the UK, with there emphasis very much on privacy and discretion

Signing Up to letscheat.com

First impression of the letscheat.com dating site for married people seeking affairs is good overall with a well thought out layout and easy to understand and use features. Design aside the site seems to be very concerned with its members privacy which I suppose is important if you plan on cheating through a dating site. Before signing up as a member you can search the site but it is a limited search. For registration all that you need to provide is an email address and basic details about yourself.As a member you can search and browse profiles but most members choose to keep their images private, giving only basic profile information until they choose to reveal more. As a member you can keep a hidden photo and a second photo visible and then give individual members a private key to view your private photo.COST PER FEATURE:

Full Membership with unlimited messaging pay once a month subscription.

Features for full members are Instant Messaging, Mail Messaging, Winks, Advanced Search

letscheat.com Conclusion

letscheat.com is a petty unique dating site. If you are looking for a discreet affair online or offline this could be just the site for you. If you can't stand .Letscheat.com seems quite inexpensive and I cannot vouch for the validity of all the members but it does place great emphasis on privacy and if I was seeking an extra marital affair I would feel a lot safer on letscheat.com rather than posting my picture on some tacky free or cheap web site were it might end up either in 25 other databases or listed in goggle images.

Mike from UK Review: britishsexcontacts.com

Ok, this time I got a review of britishsexcontacts.com site from Ian. He’s a good friend of mine and likes to find pretty girls on online dating sites. Here’s his review:

“I’ve beem using britishsexcontacts.com for some times now - about 3 or 4 months and I can say it’s a cool way to find new people to meet or just to chat. You can find girls from every part of the UK and there are about 2 milion people already registered.

If I start with the registration process, it’s quite simple in my opinion. You select what you’re a looking for (a man who seeks woman or man or whatever) and then select what you’re looking them for: like dating, cybersex, threesomes or just chatting. After you fill out your date of birth and email you get to the next page where you tell something about yourself.

For example how do you look like and what are you looking for in women. It’s simple non time consuming to be honest.

Anyway, after this step you get your password in the email and you can login to the members area. All this is FREE!

After logging in you get the option to upgrade your membership. This will bring you benefits like:

Ability to send messages to other members.
Go 1-on-1 with other members in our many Chat Rooms.
View Shared Galleries and see members private collections of naughty photos.
Contact users by personal messenge.
Send private, secure and exciting Instant Messages with other members.
Get as hot and steamy as you please! I’ve heard about some amazing Cybersex encounters.
Find exactly what you are looking for with ‘Advanced Search‘Read erotic stories, explore Kama .

But at first I’d go with “no thanks” option and just browse a little bit in the members area to find a nice lady. Here are some of the sexy girls from the members area

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Have your own cyber dating adventure with me !

2008-03-19T14:04:00.002Z

Hi there!

As many of you know , I can be a bit filthy and I love to be watched while I am! I've read a lot about dogging and wouldn't mind giving that a try if you fancy helping me check it out? (Im also up for some 121 fun too!)

im married but he isnt really interested to be honest (thats why I joined www.britishsexcontacts.com) so he just lets me get on with my filthy fun.... im on the site under my nickname and have uploaded some pics too, message me and
id prefer some pics first so make sure you have one!

So if you fancy some nsa fun with a hot milf such as myself give me a shout i'd like to hear your views on my site among other things ;)

hot women looking for no strings fun and more

2008-03-19T13:37:00.002Z

Hi guys and girls again,

just thought i'd update you on the latest bunch of hot women looking for no strings fun and more.

The sexiest and most gorgeous babes from across the UK courtesy of British Sex Contacts.

Awesome girls' profiles ........taken from British Sex Contacts and Letscheat.com

Laura

Nice slim brunette looking for handsome man
Cute and open minded not shy
I am intelligent,have a good sense of humour.
Love to hear from you guys
Hugs & Kisses
x Laura x

Chloe

I'm a single female who is attractive with a creative mind. I love socialising with intelligent and interesting people from different walks of life.
The out-doors are in my 'likes' and I can think of nothing better than being a naughty girl outside A cheery disposition is a must anything everything else is just gravy send me a message if you want some fun.

Tanya

I am looking for a man aged between 23 and 32, tall, and with an athletic body (don't mind what type of athlete just as long as the sport isn't sumo or darts). I want some uncomplicated fun, maybe a relationship depends on the guy.

If you’re stressed, unemployed and or have no sense of humour please don’t reply.

I can be quite sarcastic and I love to travel, drink, go clubbing and go scuba diving. I hate the cold and live for summer. People always say I look really sweet and innocent, well that is until they get to know me :P I’m 23, 5’5” and slim.

Kathleen

Fun bubbly lady very caring nature seeking a very honest genuine man between the age 30 to 50 ,to enjoy some quality time with ;) only reply if think your up to job please message me if you would like to get to know me pictures please.

Ella

in my mid twenties looking to meet a submissive man for a some NSA fun

You will get the thumbs up if you are:
- between 23-34
- cityboy
- single
- Not a immature guy
- looking for a person not uber domme
- genuinely into real sex as well as BDSM

I would like to meet in person after a messages, and start off as equals with no roles assumed at first. No texting.

With regards to experience I would prefer someone who has some experience or at least an understanding of his own sexual make up but this isn't a criteria.

If you're strong enough, mean enough, compassionate and understanding enough, I will adore you.
I may look sweet and innocent but looks can be deceiving saying that please only contact me if you have pics.

Kendra

hey u sexy guys! am looking for a big guy with the following qualities, so if you fit the bill, then you know what you`ve got to do...

decent,friendly,knows how to have a good time,honest,good sense of humour,enjoys having a laugh...

am looking to start off with friendship and then we could take it from there...

also, you will only get a reply if u have a pic!

Kendra x

Justine

I’m a fun, frisky & friendly blonde girl who's laid back, easy to get along with, and loves to play in hotel bed. I’m definitely not looking to get myself into a serious relationship right now, but I still want to have a lot of fun and enjoy a great sex life. I need many climaxes per night. I want to meet someone who can handle a good time, and have great sex without strings and without games or drama. Let’s just have fun.

Caroline

Hi boys

I have an insatiable sexual appetite that few men seem to be able to satisfy..I am horny pretty much 24/7 which is not a good thing if, like me, you're single and not a slapper who'll sleep with anyone...
I like quite rough, dominant sex...I'm pretty submissive and I love filthy talk, being held down or tied up and pretty much taking what you decide to give me...so if you're a sexy guy and can handle a rebellious little minx, tell me exactly how you would keep me in line...sir ;)
Also I have a real fantasy about having a 3some (2 guys) - kind of adds to the domination I guess since I would be totally outnumbered...but not sure if I'd ever actually do it....like to hear your thoughts on it though

xx

p.s. about me - I'm 25, dark hair, great arse, size 8-10, posh voice, filthy mind

Jasmine

I am black, 26yr old girl looking for some n.s.a sex. I am always horny and would like someone to come and give me a good seeing to.

Diana

I've never done anything like this before so I'm kinda nervous and excited at the same time but liked taking this pic. I am curious about older men and I always fantasize about letting them violate me. I want a real man who knows how to make a girl submit. I have pert tits and a small waist so you be hot and have a nice cock for me, I love big cock more than anything..
D x

Nina

They say there is no such thing as a nymphomanic - WRONG!

I am one of those rare women who really like sex on a daily basis if not more frequently. So if you want a great NSA shag let me know what YOU can do.

Age and looks are less important than imagination.

Trouble is finding a guy who can stand my pace. I need a fresh partner everyday and later this month I am looking for something REALLY special.

My body - your choice to do with as you will. I have 3 wet holes waiting.

Nina's a real Nympho

Emma 22

I am a attractive,single and sexy seeking to meet experianced males age range of 20-70,for un-hibited sexual encounters.Love to please and will be sub if required with dom male/couple.Happy to dress/undress to please.Can travel.Willing to try most things etc.Would like to encounter coloured male at some point.Prefer w/e males but not essential

Lyndsey

Sexy single mixed race single girl looking for mr. yeah right there !
Me ? I'm friendly, smart, funny, honest and from a strict family but guess i am bit of a rebel.I don't need love so anything from a one night stand to a fuck buddy is welcome! If you think that you fit the bill message me....

Lyndsey

Alexandra

I am a 23 year old, white female, brunette hair, blue eyes and am looking for a guy who is good at oral sex and would like to perform it on me. Maybe on a regular basis then if you are good enough maybe I may blow your mind in return..please message me and make sure u have a picture..has to be over 21 years of age...and under 40.

All these hot girls and horny women can be found at www.britishsexcontacts.com and more hot pics at http://tgp.britishsexcontacts.com/girls_looking_for_sex/

Free UK dating online ? Looking to get laid or find your soul mate.

2008-03-05T12:23:00.013Z

Free UK dating online ?

Is there free UK dating online ? Here's a question that i know gets asked alot almost as much as where can i get free porn !

Now as anyone knows you can get free some element of free porn just by using google images or going to a youporn.co.uk site or similar.

Now these are never really going to be the girl next door or even in most cases local to you or anywhere near the same area as you.

Where as for online dating services especially in the UK every site that does dating or singles etc promises to be free.

Now if you go to the world of Adult dating in the UK the field is relatively small compared to the main stream.

first I will explain the difference between main stream dating like match etc and adult online dating site and swingers sites.

Looking to get laid or find your soul mate you really need to decide before joining a site which it is your after as your unlikely to find both at a mainstream or a swingers, contact site i.e. online dating services for adult.

So what's the difference ?

Now the mainstream sites pricing policies vary from site to site with some sites offering a months free membership right through to some that offer a guarantee that you will find a match or a you get six months free etc.

Added to these are the sponsored free online dating sites like plenty of fish that have lots of ads and other junk on there site so that they do not need to charge for membership !

The downside to this is that the sites are generally quite small scale i.e. run out of some geek's bedroom and are liable to disappear if the ads stop coming.

Now there are exceptions to the free dating rule as with most rules after all,there are a number of sites that offer free dating to certain people.

Now the most obvious people to offer free dating to is women, why ? Well most dating sites have no trouble attracting horny guys but in order to stop the site turning into a sausage fest you need to get some hot and horny women to sign up !

So this is where chat2men.com and the like come into they re own for horny girls like me !

You see sites like chat2men are run and designed along similar lines to other adult sites however with one major difference they are completely free to use but for women only, this isn't to say that sites like chat2men.com or girls date for free are just full of women looking for men in vain.

Most of these sites will have partner sites that are organised along more normal lines (i.e. the men either pay to message or a monthly subscription charge)

So the benefit is that both sites get what they need the women's dating or contacts site gets men on they re database and the guys contact site gets horny women the perfect match !

Now these are fine but everyone's interpretation of a match can vary, for instance some website's consider a few dates a match where as your typical man might consider getting laid a good outcome however few women would agree with this.

So if your a man and I know there are probably more men reading this than woman you are probably just after some no strings fun or a no strings relationship.

This is fine as long as you know what your after and wont get to attached to which ever hot girl you are fucking that night as you know the next night she could be fucking some random guy off the very same site.

So as a serial cyber dater which sites do I recommend ?

Well this is quite difficult but since you asked I do have a few favourites which are great no matter whether your a horny and sexy young girl or a hot horny housewif e we have the dating site for you !

My personal favourite at the moment and for quite a while actually is www.chat2men.com now there are a few reasons why this is my fav and not just cause its 100% free for us women and is full of sexy and horny men and even some nice young 18 + boys who like a slightly more mature women to show them a few things ;)

So first things first a few tips for the girls (some of these apply to guys too so don't skip !)

A recent survey published about a popular UK adult dating site said the following "86% of our Members when surveyed recently, stated that the photo of the proposed match played a critical part in the decision whether to meet."

Now it’s human nature to place great emphasis on first impressions now this all seems fairly obvious yes ? Well there is a slight problem with this people on dating sites and swingers contacts classified etc are notoriously shy now this is not necessarily a bad thing in a person however if you truly serious about finding a date or at the very least a fuck, then you really need to upload a photo if there was one bit of advice i could give to both women and men using or about to use a online dating or swingers site then it would be UPLOAD A PHOTO OF YOURSELF !

"If there was one bit of advice I could give to both women and men using or about to use a online dating or swingers site then it would be UPLOAD A PHOTO OF YOURSELF ! "
Not a photo of a hot friend or a model off the internet.

Good examples of typical profiles from a adult dating site


Dirty Talker , 34 seeking Fetish Fun in COVENTRY	Hot Stuff , 25 seeking All Night Action in ILFORD	Girl Next Door , 19 seeking All Night Action in YORK	Playful Bunny , 23 seeking All Night Action in ABERDEEN

The photo isn't just there to show how good looking you are it just shows that you are a genuine person and that you are not trying to hide something.

Now by all means post a shot of just your body or similar some examples of member photos are below.


Some of the best profile photos don't even include a face *There is no denying that some pics without faces can be even sexier than the standard profile pic*

Just about anything can be sexy even just a t-shirt so don't worry about clothes to much.

Some of the best profile photos don't even include a face

There is no denying that some pics without faces can be even sexier than the standard profile pic

Just about anything can be sexy even just a t-shirt so don't worry about clothes to much.

The photo on the left may be ok for mainstream sites bit to really grab a guys attention
you cant really go wrong with showing your boobs lol !

Now tip number 2 !

Fill in your profile, be truthful but not too the extent that you start putting yourself down a sad pathetic person that hates themselves is not attractive to a guy or a girl, you wouldn't walk up to a girl or guy in a bar and not say anything or tell them about how you've been single for months and months would you ?I hope not anyway so do not do it online either !

Example of a good profile, nice and short clear and concise no need to tell them everything you'll have plenty of time to get to know each other if you wish, just try to say a little about yourself and what your after !

Sexy Mum, 36 in BIRMINGHAM

Description: 30 something mum looking for some extra fun with guys who appreciate a woman and can treat her right! Discretion a must!

Statistics

Age:	36
Sexuality:	Straight
Status:	Divorced
Looking for:	Discreet relationship

Race:	Caucasian
Body Type:	Average
Height:	5ft 11in
Eye Colour:	Brown

Hair Colour:	Brunette
Smoker:	No
Drinker:	Light
Children:	Yes, at home

So that's my 2 important tips for getting laid online oh and just one more little tip when you start chatting guys do not ask after the second message when you can come fuck me, now i am not saying i don't go to these sites to get laid but seriously guys what do you honestly expect me to say yeah come over now ?

If you just want to fuck a girl or woman or whatever and have little or no connection go buy a prostitute or a escort cause I may be easy but I ain' t no whore.

So there you have it my top tips for navigating your way through the maze that is online dating in the UK happy fucking guys and girls.

Sites I would recommend are

British Sex Contacts dating largest online pay per message no subscription- www.britishsexcontacts.com

Lets Cheat The Largest UK only subscription dating site - www.letscheat.com with unlimited messaging !

Chat 2 Men Girls date for free - www.chat2men.com Largest free UK and Women's only dating site no fees ever 100% free.

More dating tips and advice for you

2008-02-21T12:56:00.000Z

Love is a need. Dating is a lifestyle. Online dating is an adventure.
We find the hottest and best girls from online find a sexy single near you.

British Sex Contacts have 1000's of real girls and women who are just looking for some no strings fun with horny guys like you.

There are a lot of gals out there who have the kinds of bodies that drive men absolutely crazy. I don't know how some girls manage to have the kind of big, fit booty that they have, but I'm sure glad that they do. It makes me proud to walk down the street with a girlfriend that every guy is staring at and wishing that he was with her. Instead, they'll have to check out some of the gorgeous girls on the fitness dating sites that are so popular these days. I've had great success meeting some absolutely beautiful women with positively perfect posteriors.

Looking For A Sexy, Fit Girl

I know that personality is supposed count for a lot and that it's generally considered shallow to be overly obsessed about the way people look. Be that as it may, it's hard to deny that most guys are going to be more attracted to a sexy, fit girl. It's not just a guy thing either, it's pretty obvious that fit guy will get more attention than a guy who doesn't take care of himself. So if, for whatever reason, you're the kind of person that thinks people's bodies are important then a fitness dating site might be the best place for you to look for a partner.

t is like a “déjà vu” – the same pink hearts all over the windows of the shops, the same tacky cards and the same feeling of “I’m dreading it!” Well… let me tell you – it is a bit over the top and in my opinion it’s not the right way to just manifest your feelings only once a year! That’s what Valentine’s Day has become in the last decades and it is actually yet another sad example of our consumerism. I for one, refuse to participate and I know this feeling – when you are single it’s really hard to bear the whole “industry” efforts of trying to make you feel guilty and “invisible” only because you don’t have a “valentine” and you don’t buy her/him a pink polyester heart-shaped pillow! Sound familiar?

It’s not what love is all about – for me it is in the small details and you can feel it every single day when you are with the right person. It may be not a bunch of 24 red roses from Tesco, just one single one after a nice walk in the park or even just a smile early in the morning is enough to know that you are loved! While I’m dreading the Valentine’s Day with all the tackiness,

naturally I strongly believe you do need to look for that special one! This is not just to have somebody for the next Valentine in order to not feel discriminated for being single - but for life!

Happy Dating!

How do you know when he or she may be the one for you?

We asked our Members for their suggestions and have listed just a few they came up with below:

You can't stop thinking about each other when you are apart

He asks you what you would like, then does it

She can make you laugh and lift your spirits

He is caring and considerate, asks for and listens to your opinions and feelings

You communicate easily and can talk about a variety of things never running out of things to say You work together to solve problems

You accept each other's differences and can agree to disagree without resentment

She is an independent thinker and has her own thoughts and opinions, not just agreeing with yours

He is open and comfortable talking about himself

You respect, admire and appreciate each other

A Picture is worth a Thousand Words!

We’ve all heard the advertising phrase about a ‘picture being worth a thousand words’, well nowhere is it more important than when seeking a partner! Regardless of whether you choose British Sex Contacts to assist in your search or you go it alone with the lottery of internet dating, the importance of your photo cannot be ignored! Last years holiday snaps or one from the new years party at the start of the new millennium just won’t do it!

Unfortunately but understandably, 86% of our Members when surveyed recently, stated that the photo of the proposed match played a critical part in the decision whether to meet. It’s human nature to place great emphasis on first impressions but following the sincere advice of our Consultants, we have numerous examples of successful relationships that developed following meetings initially having been refused based on appearances – so you don’t need to be a supermodel to be successful!

Whilst these objective recommendations are a huge benefit from using the TopMatch service, for both parties, you can do yourself a real favour by at least making sure the photo you use is the best possible in terms of lighting, pose and your own preparation as well as being up to date, to avoid any surprises. Our experienced Consultants will take a good quality photo at your initial Consultation but if you really want to greatly improve the odds, we’d recommend you invest a small amount of time and money in using a professional photo studio. They are the experts and they’ll be able to ensure you make the best possible first impression and avoid the risk of missing out on finding Mr or Mrs Right just because of your photo!

Even though I'm open to the possibility of being with someone outside of my generation, my experience has taught me that such a situation brings with it issues you should keep in mind. The most apparent is insecurity. It's not uncommon for shy older women or men to be a bit nervous about your energetic spirit. They can easily forget what they have to offer when faced with the outer beauty they themselves fear losing, or have lost already. I'm not just talking about senior dating either.

We thought it may be helpful to list a short selection of essential dating tips that you should follow if you hope to make a great first impression and have a chance of getting a second date!

After arranging your date, don’t keep calling or texting before you meet – save something to talk about and avoid appearing desperate!

Gents make sure you are always early – never keep a lady waiting!

Pay attention to presentation – clean shoes, nails, hair, teeth, clothes etc

Don’t make an instant judgement – let people warm up and relax and you may see them in a different light!

Sincerely compliment your date on something – her hair, his tie, anything – except physical attributes, you’re still comparative strangers, so don’t get too personal at this stage!

Listen at least as much as you speak – be genuinely interested in what your date has to say – a very attractive characteristic.

Be honest – if not, it could spoil things later if you begin a relationship. Reveal your past at a slow rate though; you may reveal some fatal flaws. The process is like peeling the layers off an onion; move too fast and you’ll create tears. Don’t be downbeat about yourself or too arrogant.

Be philosophical and forward-looking – remember, the past doesn’t always equal the future.

Don’t talk about yourself non-stop and don’t boast – a most unattractive characteristic and almost certain to spoil the date.

Don’t be bitter about ex-partners – bitterness is definitely unattractive. Bitter people are the types who make huge, inaccurate and plainly illogical generalisations about how terrible men/women are – it’s sad, it’s boring and it’s wrong, don’t do it!

Things to try to avoid talking about but which usually crop up in conversations – politics, religion and sex. Don’t make sweeping statements or insulting remarks. Try to make your date laugh – but keep the jokes witty – and clean!

Don’t drink too much. If you don’t drink alcohol generally, tonight is not the time to start. Stick to your usual drink. If either of you is driving, don’t drive, be responsible.

Already have the second date in mind when you are on the first. This may appear presumptuous but you don’t want to be caught off guard if the first date overruns and you don’t have a chance to make a second. Your second date should usually be dinner in a nice restaurant for lunch or dinner.

What is the No1 mistake men make with online dating?

Okay there are few things that could be considered the ‘kiss of death’ when it comes to online dating but from talking to women that date online regularly this has come out as the number 1.

She logs into her account, checks her inbox and opens this:

Hi Silverlady, loved your profile and you look good too. Email me iamaplonker@stupidmail.com or phone me on 123456. Desperate Dan

This says the following…. in huge neon signs:

1. You didn’t even read her profile because you have not mentioned one thing about her you like or want to know more about.

2. “and you look good too” is the equivalent of undressing someone with your eyes, in an unpleasant letcherous way - how far does that usually get you?

3. You don’t want to get to know her - the email and phone number are the equivalent of trying to get to 3rd base before you have asked her name.

4. You are so desperate to have physical contact with just about anyone that you can’t even be bothered with the pleasantries.

Well if you think those are good signals to send out then the very best of luck to you, because you are going to need it. Women DO NOT respond well to such approaches.

Some men think that they can get away with:

Hi Silverlady, liked your profile. You play water polo, you must be very fit. Check out my profile and if you like it I would love to hear from you again. Dan

{hey, not a bad start, well done - she just might reply}

Hi Dan, thanks for your email. Yes I play in my local team and it keeps me quite fit. Do you play a sport? Silverlady

{then you go and do it}

Hi Silverlady. Yes I play footy. Your photo is really nice. Why don’t we talk offline call me on ……… Desperate Dan

Just because you waited until the second email does not make it okay.

Unless you have joined a website called ‘women desperate for sex with you tonight’ then this approach is the absolute kiss of death. Have a little self respect and respect for the women you are contacting. Most women want to talk, to get to know you and they want you to get to know them (mentally not physically).

On the strip: Well I was gonna write a new post but procrastination got here first

2008-02-18T16:49:00.000Z

Hey guys just though I'd pass on a great new blog i found at blogspot the great guys that gave me this free blog !!

The site is called :On the strip: Well I was gonna write a new post but procrastination got here first
funny and genuine blog from a UK lap or pole dancer dunno what they call themselves these days.

Top 10 reasons why I won’t call you after our first date

2007-11-20T11:53:00.000Z

The purpose of this list is not to offend anyone, but rather to try and help those who constantly fail at attracting women. I realise some of these things may be a tad personal, but sometimes you have to take a good hard proverbial look in the mirror and try to think of ways you can better yourself. Self-improvement should be an ongoing process every day throughout our adult lives.

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It is almost the holiday season….have you found that special someone yet? Well if you find yourself reading this post, I can safely bet the answer is an emphatic “NO”. No worries, as you still have a few more weeks before you find yourself alone at the company Christmas party, or alone on Christmas Eve and drowning your sorrows in cheaply made egg nogg at your local watering hole. Sorry for being so grim here. I am in the same boat you are. (I think we should all get together and have an anti-holiday Christmas party for us singles).

I am a current member of an online dating site, and have been for almost 5 months now. I have met some really nice guys on there. I’m sure that any other women in her right mind would have already been dating (and presumably married) these guys, but I am going for broke. I have a mental image of exactly who and what I am looking for and refuse to settle for less. So sue me (but watch out because I will promptly file a counter-suit and the firm that I work for will get a kick out of this one, for sure).

So without further adieu, here are my top 10 reasons I will NOT go out on a second date with you. I have to be honest….this is going to be pretty brutal on some people. I’m sorry. These are just common courtesy things you must do in order to make a great first impression on someone.

1. You showed up late to our first date without calling.
This one is pretty self explanatory. Unless you are a heart surgeon and the triple bypass surgery you were operating on went into double overtime, you had better have a good explanation as to why you were late. I understand that traffic issues and transportation issue can cause people to be late to a date. Wildly assuming you don’t have a cell-phone, forgot your morse-code device at home and the blanket used to make smoke signals is tattered and torn, for pete’s sake, when you finally do arrive late try to have at least a plausible excuse. Alien abduction/sub sequential probing/you helped a little old lady escape a burning house fire, anything will do. Just don’t waltz on over to the table and pretend that nothing happened. This shows that you are unreliable, and if I can’t trust your word on the first date, how am I supposed to trust you in a relationship?

2. Baby stink-breath (and jacked up teeth)
If I can smell your stank breath from 10 feet away, what in god’s green earth makes you think I would want to kiss that sanitation dump? Try brushing your teeth before a date. I realize that not everyone has perfect teeth (me neither) but at least bleach those suckers so that they don’t look like an army of miniature gold miners have set up camp in your grill. If your teeth are seriously jacked, and you can’t afford the cosmetic dental procedures, then try looking up your local dental school. They offer discounted rates to get quality dental work done by students (under the stern supervision of their instructors, of course).

3. Nervousness
Granted. Everyone gets nervous on their first date. But it shouldn’t get to the point where your hands are physically shaking and you stare at me with a blank stare on your face. I went out on dinner date at a local sports pub/diner and I immediately noticed something was wrong when the guy did not make eye contact with me when we first met. After we had sat down and ordered, there was absolutely no small talk. I had to carry the entire conversation and it was downright painful. Every question that I directed at him was a cue for him to take the proverbial ball and run with it. His answers were a short “yes” and “no” and the lovely “Umm, I don’t know” followed by a nervous laugh and another blank stare at me. Not everyone can show complete confidence and even fewer people can fake their way through it. Before you go out on another train wreck of a date, try to spare yourself the embarrassment before hand. Join a local Toastmasters club or take a night class at your local community college. This is a great way to get over the jitters that are accompanied by meeting new people for the first time. I might take you a few months to get your proverbial game in check, but at least this way the next time you go out on a date, your hands won’t be shaking so violently that you get more salt on the table than you do on your fries.

4. Psychics
I cannot stand it when I am out on a date with a guy, and during the course of a normal conversation he starts talking in a future tense. Example: I was out on date with a guy and we hit it off pretty well. 1/2 way into the conversation, he starts talking about “our next camping trip” (I like to go camping) and that made me feel pretty uncomfortable. True, I had told him that I like to camp, and was planning a trip in the not to far future, but for him to assume that I am going to take him with me after only knowing him for a few hours was completely out of line. Throughout the night, he kept planning future dates and future events for us. I mean, if I had found the love of my life (and had a few glasses of vino) then I might have played along. But not for someone who I have only known for a few hours. The creepiest part of the date was when he asked me “what should we name our first born son?”

5. Stalkers
Oh lordy….I cannot even begin to count the number of times I have had to change my email address to avoid the guys who just couldn’t take a hint. We had gone out on one date, it was pretty obvious to the both of us that there was no chemistry whatsoever and we agreed to end it on a pleasant note. The very next day I got an email from him, asking me if I wanted to come over and “watch a movie” at his place. I politely responded back that I was still not interested and wished him the best of luck. Whoops….looks like I touched on a raw nerve because the very next day I got a 3 page email blasting me for being a “total and complete bitch” and how “women like me deserve to be single”. He then went on to very eloquently say that he couldn’t understand why all women did this to him……yikes. So he continued this email barrage for another two days until I sent him a strongly worded cease and desist complete in my best legalese to date (I knew all those years spent in law school would come in handy someday) and he finally got the message. Girls, if you have an email stalker, the best thing to do is to Google a “cease and desist” letter and change it to your liking. Tell him that he is “walking a thin line between communication and stalking” and make it clear that you have no further intention of continuing the conversation with him. That usually does the trick. If it doesn’t, contact your local police department via email and forward them a copy of the emails and “cc” them in your cease and desist email.

6. Einsteins theory of stupidity.
Nothing turns a girl off faster than some anal-retentive jerk who talks down to us in a condescending tone throughout the entire date then expects us to fall head over heels for them. I don’t know about the rest of you ladies, but I just can’t wait to call a guy back the next day after he stomped all over me like a dead carcass the night before. If it smells like a rose and looks like a rose and sounds like a rose on a date, it is probably a stinking pile of you-know-what. I met a guy once for a dinner date who was a supposed prominent attorney, only to come to find out he had failed the bar 3 times in a row and was working as a administrative assistant for a local attorney. During the course of the dinner date I could not get a word in edge-wise over how many court cases he had won and how he was “this close” to becoming a partner etc. et al. Loser.

7. Rudeness to your waiter
I recently read on CNN.com that the majority of CEO’s worldwide say that you can tell a man’s character by the way he treats others, waiters in particular. People that are rude to others or treat them like dirt usually have a bad character. If you are rude to someone who is trying to help you enjoy your dining experience, what are the chances you will treat me the same way? For me, this goes beyond eating in restaurants. I like to give guys who pass muster with me on the first date a little test on the second date. I will take him to Starbucks or anywhere else for that matter. Not any Starbucks, but one with the most incompetent cashier/server that I have ever encountered. Someone SO bad, that most people go out of their way to be nicer to this person. If my date is rude or starts getting huffy or pissy with the server, I will instantly fake a phone call from a friend and leave mr. big shot to sit and wonder why I left after only 10 minutes on the date.

8. Rapmaster “B” and the Funky Bunch
Maybe I should have entitled this one “How to speak proper English”. Nothing turns me off more, than someone with bad grammar. When first communicating with a guy via email, he has the luxury of using the spell check before he sends off his letters of woo to me. On a date, if I hear any of the following words during the normal course of conversation, it’s over: (guys take note)

a. “DUDE”

b. “GUNNA”

c. “WAS LIKE…”

d. “UMMM” (right before you answer a question)

e. “BRO” (I swear on everything sacred, that if I hear the word “BRO” ever again, I will do much harm)

F. “Wanna meet ?”

G. “your hot !

Ummm Bro, if you was like gunna come to me with that kinda language on the first date…..bro, you had better prepare for the shortest date in your life cuz I’m fixin’ to bail on your sorry no-grammar-having a$$.

9. Nice shoes, wanna screw?
There is a proper time and a proper place for strong sexual innuendos. The first couple of dates are NOT said proper time. Don’t say it, don’t even think it. There is nothing more pathetic than someone who turns every word a girl says into something sexual. I don’t care how big you are, how many girls you have been with, how “great of a lover” you are. Maybe the last ho-bag that you dated did, but as a proper respectable female, I do not. I am pretty sure most other women will agree with this statement. Treat us like the proper ladies we are !!

10. Not taking a hint.
Guys: Women look for chemistry on a date. In this day and age, men with good looks and lots of money and tons of charm are a dime a dozen. I don’t care how big and buff you are. I don’t care what kind of care you drive. What I do care is the chemistry that I perceive to feel on the first couple of dates. If it isn’t there, cut your losses and end it. Most women are too nice to break it off with a guy they aren’t really “feeling it” with, so they agree to go out on one or two more dates. You should notice something’s amiss when we aren’t making direct eye contact, or our body language suggests that you take a long walk off a short pier, or you catch us smiling and flirting with a cute guy that happens to be sitting near us.

Well there you have it. 10 reasons why I will never call you after our first date. I realize that I did not give any ground-breaking insight into the female mind here as that was not my intention. I think that in this crazy day and age of online dating, people should really start getting back to the basics. Common courtesy will do us all some good. After your next failed date, come back to this page and reread the above 10 tips and ask yourself if you did any of the above.

If I can summarize this entire post into one statement it would be this: Treat everyone you meet in life with the same respect and courtesy you would wish upon yourself. I think this entire world has gone ape sh!t nuts and the root cause of it is simple lack of respect for one another. It’s as simple as that folks….let’s try to respect each other. Life is too short to be angry or walk around with a chip on your shoulder. If there is a problem, instead of blaming it on someone else, try to fix it yourself.

Hopefully this post will help some clueless soul out there become successful one of the dating sites this holiday season.

Great guide to online dating

2007-07-23T15:09:00.000Z

The Risks of Online Dating

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For an inexperienced online dater, the danger lurks at every corner. But there are some safety measures prospective participants can take to help guide them through a safe online dating experience.

Rule of the thumb: most online dating services the offer subscription are relatively safer than those individuals that can be accessed for free. Those sites that require membership offer a set of requirements, and guidelines that aspiring members would have to meet before they become subscribers.

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1. Participants should pay attention to the consistency of the information given to them by the persons they are corresponding with. This way, they'd be able to detect if they're lying.

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3. Participants should abruptly cease communication with people who are obsessed with acquiring personal information about them.

4. Participants should always keep a look out for warning signs when they are talking to people, such as: the use of foul language, signs of anger for no apparent reason, elusiveness in answering direct questions, makes disrespectful remarks, etc. These are some of the symptoms that spell something could terribly go wrong. The person that is exhibiting these types of behavior may not be trustworthy, and may lead others to danger.

Tip! There are millions of people dating online at any given time and chances are that if you persist, you will find the person who is right for you. Don't take rejection too seriously and keep trying.

5. Once an online dater has decided to meet his or her date, they should agree to have a meeting place. Individuals should never allow their dates to meet them at home.

Online dating is similar to real life dating in the sense that individuals should always practice common sense and caution, whenever they meet someone new. Even though, the interaction takes place online, once people have revealed personal information about them to others, they won't be able to take them back.

It is best to always use one's instincts and logic when it comes to dealing with other people, even when it comes to online dating. This is where some people fall prey to cheaters, deceivers, and even sexual offenders. They go against their better judgment. If something feels amiss, like there is something not quite right, then this is probably a sign that something can go terribly wrong.

Tip! Online dating is very popular these days. But while dating online has the advantages in its own, over the period of time this has been misused and is corrupted by many disadvantages.

It is best to get out of this situation whenever this occurs. As the saying goes: "Better be safe than be sorry." A saying that online dating service participant should always remember.

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2007-05-03T10:16:00.000Z

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2007-03-15T14:06:00.000Z

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2006-10-11T11:10:00.000Z

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